Why Work Hard and You’ll Be Successful is a lie “Work hard and you will succeed.” BS!! Success has less to do with hard work and more, much much more to do with doing work that is hard. Work that challenges you pushes your buttons and makes you uncomfortable … that is what makes you […]
How Volunteering Offers the Best Kind of Pay
How Volunteering Offers the Best Kind of Pay I see a lot of people who feel “stuck” in life, bored, a bit unhappy with life, not feeling entirely satisfied with how things are going but unsure what if anything they can do to change that dynamic. I’m going to give you the advice I frequently […]
How to Say No, Without Saying No
How to Say No, Without Saying No This past month I have been experiencing something I find just yucky. Shopping for a new car. I have never caught more sales people in flat-out lies before in my entire life, and it just kept happening no matter which dealership we went to. Personally, I was in […]
Manipulation: How to Know When it’s Happening and How to Stop it
Manipulation: How to Know When it’s Happening and How to Stop it I recently had a woman in my office crying that her husband cheated on her and saying it was her fault. “How could that possibly be your fault?” I ask every time even though the answer is almost always the same and awful, […]
Manipulation; How to Get What you Want, Not What Your Mother Wants
Manipulation; How to Get What you Want, Not What Your Mother Wants In addition to hypnotherapy I also do intuitive readings at the Awakenings Book Store in Laguna Hills California. I love doing it and I am always amazed at what I learn about human nature from my clients. One day one of my intuitive […]